When we talk about paying attention to the small details, we get to the point that there are people who pay attention and those who do not. In a relationship, people who are capable to organize you great and usually costly trips or excessive gifts are mostly not able to do any kind of small surprise like it is a simple call to tell you about something that reminds him or her of you. Small acts in a relationship are actually a big deal. They also are not able to take care of you during your disease.
Happiness is actually in those small acts in a relationship they do for you. These people who do worry about every detail are most times confidential to stay by your side in any situation. They are aware that there is not have to be required any special occasion because worrying about someone should have to be as easy as possible when we consider love as the main thing. You worry about details and it is easy for you because you love them.
Here are some useful examples of little gestures which in reality become larger.
Leave a sweet note.
Sweet note with a short ‘I love you’ or ‘I miss you’ message can be posted anywhere you want. It can be his or her lunch box, or in the car. Since we are not in a high school anymore it is not expected to open a small piece of paper which is filled with a love message. It will be appreciated by your beloved one. And one more thing which is good about this little surprise is that it is free and easy, and most importantly it will put a smile on his or her face.
Listening is important in any relationship including those with your parents or friends. When It comes to a conversation try to really abandon all things that are in your head, and listen to your partner. Sometimes it can say more than any long mutually conversation. Healthy relationship implies each partner to love, guide and counsel another.
Do what he or she likes.
If there is something that your partner loves to do, you should try to do it together. It can be some good movie, TV show, listening to music you don’t really like, or any other enjoy such as discovering a new restaurant with food you don’t enjoy, still try. It will be easier if you have a good attitude about it.
In order to make your partner happy it is perfectly fine if you sometimes spend your time doing something you normally would not. Relationships last longer if you make a compromise, and your partner would be happier if he gets to share what he loves with you.
Text him for a good morning
Surprise your boyfriend with short ‘I love you’ or ‘First person I thought of when I woke up this morning is you’ message. There is something cute in unexpected messages. It would make him happy for the rest of the day.
If you say you are doing something, do it.
Being reliable is very important in any relationship. There is no worry for you when it is about your partner and his or her reliability. You can count on them no matter what. They are going to be there when it is needed. They will stand by your side, and be there as support, like a real playmate or like protection. There is no worry for you of them being late or any worry of will they do what they promise because you know for sure, they are reliable.
Pay close attention and react accordingly. Be thoughtful.
Knowing your partner well, and by that means to know what he or she likes or not signs that you are paying attention of how your partner feels, is he happy, sad, angry or something you couldn’t notice while you were stuck everyday routine. Thoughtfulness also means we need to support partner during some tough time and to encourage partner in good times.
If you know your partner well, then you know what small detail is he about to like. Thoughtfulness is good as it helps us to connect deeply with others.
Being patient is important.
If we are willing to have a strong relationship with your partner, being patient is what you have to do. It is the basic feature and it will only lead in a positive way. Learning about someone and his personality differences take a lot of patients. It is also important if you want to have one productive and normal conversation rather than arguing. You can stay calm without anyone knowing that. You can stay calm by taking a deep breath and allowing the situation to unroll the way it should.
Showing that you are honest to your partner means that you have respect and love for them. Do not be honest in the bad way which means to say something that is going to hurt your partner but let your partner know he will get the right answer if they ask, no matter what is the question about.
Safe and happy partner.
If your partner feels safe in an emotional way, it means he will protect you too in both physical and emotional way. If they open emotionally to you, do not judge because they maybe had a long way to open up. Safety in a relationship is important for both of you.
Be willing to compromise.
As it is known, no one is same and no one loves same things. But if you listen and care about partners wishes and decisions, you will have to be ready to listen, do or see things you may not like, but your partner does. You need to think of that on the way that partner is about to do same for you.
You get satisfaction and fulfillment in a relationship by making a strong connection. It happens if you two are able to look each other and know what you mean. You get it complete by having small gestures that are making you happy for doing them and your partner happy for knowing that you have done something just for him. That is more important than anything else.